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The Finch memoir prize will be relaunched for 2019 by its new owners Bad Apple Press. Stay tuned for more information by signing up to the Bad Apple Press newsletter or visit www.badapplepress.com.au
Getting up first while camping, preferably on a cool spring morning, starting the fire going, still in my pj’s, and the smell of the coffee starts to mingle with the smell of the campfire. I know there is nothing to achieve today except coffee, talking with people I love, and keeping the fire going into the night.
I’m really nosy, like poke my nose out of the curtains to see what’s going on outside nosy. I do it so often that my dog has started doing it too.
Confidence is a massively overrated virtue.
All too often I see, and I am probably guilty of, arrogance and rudeness masquerading as confidence.
Given that I’ve just written a book about going to prison you would think this one would be pretty obvious right? Wrong!
I firmly believe that every choice I have made in life has led me to where I am right now. And right now life is pretty good, so why waste time on regret!
I don’t know what my nemesis’s name would be but the person who can stop eating before they finish the whole packet of chips, or donuts, or the whole bottle of wine.
Mr Moderation I guess…
I would love to be able to do stand up comedy, and I would love to be able to play an instrument
Honey, I can’t stand the stuff. I don’t like the smell, the taste, the viscosity.
And people who say they will give something 110%
No Karen you will not, plus you don’t understand maths!!
I really admire kindness and grace.
If you’re one of my mates you also need to be able to take a massive amount of stirring, and give as good as you get…
I’m not sure there are different characteristics I admire in men or women, kindness and grace also.
I’m not sure if this is a characteristic but I think I seek to understand people.
The old expression is empathy means to walk a mile in another’s shoes.
I think the bit people miss from this saying is that once you understand someone’s journey it’s your responsibility to adjust your behaviour to meet their need.
Do your own time
If you’re going to do something do it with grace
What I love about working at Finch Publishing is how close-knit the team is and the broad range of tasks a person is exposed to. In a big publishing house, you stick to your department, in my case, publicity. At a small publisher, you’re exposed to everything. Your input is requested on cover design, editorial, submissions, sales and marketing. It’s an in-depth exposure to the publishing process.
My experience at Finch meant that when I went shopping for a publisher for my book, I was more than willing to consider a small press. What they lack in size they make up for in passion, humanity, and the willingness to publish a book that might not meet a big publisher’s sales criteria but nonetheless deserves to make it into the public arena. The quality of editorial input and production is just as good. Small presses don’t have the sales clout of larger publishers but having worked in publicity and marketing most of my adult life, I know a few tricks to get around that.
Could Finch have published my book? No. They’re a niche non-fiction publishing house whereas I have written a romance. I love romance, in life and fiction. It’s a sub-plot in almost every fiction genre. However, I like my romance straight up, undiluted, like a good Scotch.
Romance can be defined as fiction by women about women for women. And that’s true, although the genre has expanded to include romance between two (or more) people regardless of their sexual persuasion. I think it’s sad men feel intimidated about reading romance. I reckon they’d enjoy it, the same way they enjoy a good romantic comedy at the movies – even if they claim to see it only as part of a negotiation with their wife or girlfriend regarding the next action flick. Some romances are better than others, but that’s true for every genre. The more familiar you become with the genre, the easier it is to separate the wheat from the chaff.
Romance is a genre that’s always on the cutting edge of publishing, trying new technologies, creating new sub-genres, debating social mores. The #metoo movement was a highly debated discussion before Harvey Weinstein hit the press. Likewise, questions around cultural diversity and cultural appropriation are constantly raised in blogs, chat rooms and on Twitter.
So, when The Wild Rose Press in America made me an offer for The Millionaire Mountain Climber, I was thrilled. Not only was I going to be published, I was going to be published by a romance specialist. The author care has been fantastic, my editor a delight who has made my book far better than I could have done on my own and I LOVE my cover. It’s going to be available in paperback as well as ebook. What more could an author ask for? Multiple sales, of course, but I’ve been in the business all my life, so I take that with a pinch of salt. You do what you can do, then you send out your book with love (as both author and publisher) and hope for the best.
Link for The Wild Rose Press: https://catalog.thewildrosepress.com
We have had an exciting month so far with one of our authors, Vicki Laveau-Harvie, appearing on ABC’s Conversations with Richard Fidler. That is a first for us so we were THRILLED!!!! It was a fantastic interview and even though I knew the story, I was really hooked! Vicki’s book, The Erratics, is our winner of the Finch 2018 Memoir Prize and is available in bookshops everywhere. The podcast can be found by clicking on the ABC image.
I have just sent Around the Grounds by Peter Newlinds off to press and we are looking forward to promoting this for Father’s Day. It is a very entertaining read and jam-packed full of memories of growing up in the 70s and 80s, as well as all those magical sporting moments we remember from those times. Pat Cash beating Mats Wilander at Wimbledon? The West Indies Cricket Team annihilating everyone with their ferocious bowling? Matt Ryan holding his not-very-good-at-show jumping horse together over the show jumping round to win Olympic Eventing Gold for Australia? (Maybe that is just one of my memories!) It’s all there in Peter’s wonderful book, available in August. http://www.
We have received our advance copies of Mr Ordinary Goes to Jail and we are so proud of this book. It will be launched in Doncaster in Melbourne by Emily Webb (co-host of Australia’s True Crime podcast) and Wil Patterson will also be appearing at Brisbane Writers Festival. Mr Ordinary is a really moving and funny story about one’s man’s time in jail and what happened to him and his family after he got out. I highly recommend it. http://
Happy reading until next month!
Is there a more intense, challenging and yet heart-warming relationship in our lives? Well, possibly mothers and daughters, but that’s a subject for another time. When I wrote Raising Boys almost 25 years ago, I was aiming to solve one of the problems that most came along in my work with families in crisis or trouble – how to help mums and sons get along.
This month I am releasing a completely rewritten update of that classic book, because times have changed and there is just so much more helpful stuff coming out from researchers into boy psychology. First of all, the news that boys brains really are much more vulnerable. It starts in the womb, as the production of testosterone by the boys’ own body actually slows down his brain growth. We don’t know why this is, but it means he is vulnerable for longer, well into his first year of life, to stress and anxiety (as well as nasty chemicals like pthalates in plastics, which has been linked to ADHD and other problems). But the main message is that we need to take care of young parents, and mums especially, so they can relax, bond, and engage in that lovely dance of tenderness and comfort that helps a baby learn to regulate their emotions and grow the brain structures that determine a calm and happy level of mental heatlh.
The Full On Fours is another stage – we knew about this – where most boys get very active about this age, but the science has moved on, and it looks like a very early beginning of being not just a toddler, but a BOY toddler. Of course, every boy is different and so don’t let this be a prescription. We talk in the book about how to respond to those energy levels, and not make your boy feel bad for being rambunctious. Human beings are very active creatures and we still need to allow for that.
The Emotional Eights are a new discovery from the Murdoch Institute. The actual brain changes at eight signal the Adrenarche, or pre-puberty shift in adrenal hormones, and your son may become very volatile and need help to understand his own inner turmoil.
And did I mention adolescence? Well, there’s lots about that too because there are a thousand different ways to be a boy. How to keep boys safe, happy, and loving and happy with the girls in their lives, so that they stay friends with their mothers long into adulthood.
What could create more happiness than to have that warmth when they are adult, and into our old age! A son who loves us back, and isn’t afraid to show it. What a Mother’s Day present.
More information on Raising Boys in the 21st Century can be found here >>
Harry Cook is an Australian actor and LGBTQI activist. Since the age of 17 he has starred in some major film, TV and theatre productions. Pink Ink is a memoir of Harry’s life, his career in show business, his intense battle with addiction and ultimately his resilience and push to find acceptance within himself. We get to know Harry a little better as he answers our 11 Questions in 11 Minutes
1.What is your idea of bliss?
An afternoon walk with my husband and our dog on the beach OR a massive tub of ice cream and a good movie.
2.What is the trait you least like about yourself?
Anxiety and over-thinking. I tend to think of the worst-case-scenario far too often.
3.What do you consider to be the most overrated virtues?
Purity. If you live your life without ever making a mistake, I feel like you aren’t living it to the fullest.
I try not to regret anything, unless it’s eating an entire tub of ice cream.
5.Who would be your nemesis?
Bigots. I don’t have time for people who believe that human rights are negotiable. Human rights are for everyone.
6.Which talent would you most like to have?
I’d love to be able to play the piano. I used to play as a child but never kept at it. I’ve been thinking of picking it back up recently.
8.Qualities you admire in a man?
9.Qualities you admire in a woman?
10.What is your best characteristic?
11.What would your motto be?
Work hard and be nice.
Sam Miles talks about custom publishing and the successful launch of News Time
Custom Publishing: So what’s it all about?
On Friday March 9, I was lucky enough to be invited to the launch of smoothfm radio Breakfast host Glenn Daniel’s memoir called News Time. Held at Doltone House it was a remarkably swish affair, with fairy lights, large photos from the book arranged around the room, a host of glamorous people from the radio industry and many, many glasses of champagne!
News Time is Glenn’s recollections of his time spent in commercial FM radio, from the humble beginnings of 2UE in a small building on the outskirts of western Sydney, and spans his 35 years spent at 2SM, 2Day FM, Triple M, ABC News Radio and 101.7 WSFM. It is a fascinating book, full of all the behind the scenes stories that you never get to hear about, as well as containing some truly memorable photos and radio memorabilia.
About 7 months earlier Glenn had come to visit us at Mona Vale and discussed the idea for turning his manuscript into a book. He didn’t want it available in bookshops, as he wanted to sell it through his connections and through a website, to help raise funds for St Alfred’s Hospital. He did want a professionally produced book and through discussions we reached an agreement where we would edit, proofread, design and style Glenn’s book, and then organise printing and shipping. There was also an option to help market the book but as Glenn had the full force of Nova radio network behind him, this was not necessary.
Glenn turned out to not only one of the nicest men in the universe but a dream author: quick to respond, decisive when required, considerate of all the issues and just a real pleasure to work with.
Luckily for me as the project manager, News Time turned out beautifully and Glenn was very happy with the finished book. As Glenn had poured his heart and soul into the book I was one very nervous person on the day it was due to be delivered. I was even having dreams about boxes of books falling off trucks or all the photos being printed upside down!
The service we offered Glenn is called custom publishing. It works well for authors who want their books produced within a particular timeframe or for talks or conferences. As publicity and marketing for books on our publishing list usually start at least 7 months before the book is even edited, traditional publishing always takes a lot longer than many people think. It is not the production that takes up so much time but the pre-selling into bookshops. Custom publishing is also a great option for authors who want a professionally produced book to give as corporate gifts, to sell at seminars or through their own websites or have as family treasures.
We treat your manuscript with as much care and consideration as we would with any book on our publishing list. We use the same people we use for our own books and apply the same standards of quality. We can also help you publicise and market your book, which is almost a full time job in self, as many self-published authors will attest!
Glenn’s book can be found at https://www.newstime.media. Having survived cancer and open heart surgery, all profits from the sale of News Time will be donated to the Cardiac Research Unit at Royal Prince Alfred Hospital for its ‘world first’ valve replacement program without open heart surgery. Not only is it a really interesting read, you will be supporting a fantastic cause.
Welcome everyone to the new year at Finch! Already Christmas seems like eons ago…and we have well and truly shaken the sand out of our shoes, eaten the last pine-lime splice ice block and said goodbye to little micro naps after lunch. It’s back to work!
This year we do have some good reads coming up and pretty much something for everyone. We start the year with some girl power, with Working Mums and Women Like Us. Working Mums is a wonderful collection of stories from well known and not so well known women who work and also happen to be mums. They tell us how they manage the juggle of childcare, their careers and their lives with honesty and clarity. The very funny Mandy Nolan is back in May, and this time with a companion, fellow comic Ellen Briggs, to tell us how it really is to be a women in today’s world in Women Like Us. They pose the question: Can you be a true feminist and still like to wear nice clothes and high heels? and dive into other pressing issues of being a woman. Not just funny they also offer really quite insightful discussions on body image, marriage, children and raising children. Both Mandy and Ellen tell it how it is, and we applaud them for it.
In May we also have the revised and updated edition of the best-selling and well-loved book Raising Boys from Steve Biddulph. Raising Boys in the Twenty-first Century offers information on how to raise sons in a world which offers gender equality, respect, and a whole new kind of manhood, but is still battered by toxic masculinity, pornography and emotional muteness. Steve has worked with families for 40 years. During that time he has helped change the nature of boys’ education, brought a generation of fathers into hands-on engagement with their kids, and given mothers the confidence to love their sons and not be afraid of them. He believes the old saying “boys will be boys” is a weak copout and isn’t afraid to say so. As Steve says, Boys will be the men we make them. Definitely one to stock up on for any new parents, and parents who want the latest info on how to raise boys.
In June we have the winner of the 2017 Memoir prize and what an astonishingly good read it is! The Erratics by Vicki Laveau-Harvie will grip you from the first page. I could not put it down! It is one of the best memoirs we have ever published, in my opinion.
Then for a complete change of pace, in July we have Mr Ordinary Goes to Jail, a wonderful frank, funny and fascinating account of one man’s time in jail and the lessons he learned. If you have ever wondered what life is really like on the inside, then this is for you. I was laughing through my hands with this, more than a little bit horrified but still amused at some of the events that happened.
For all sporting fans we have Around the Grounds by sporting broadcaster Peter Newlinds. For so many years the voice of ABC’s ‘Grandstand’, Peter has some wonderful inspiring stories to tell about his most memorable moments in sport. His stories range from watching the West Indies bowl the bejezus out of the Australians, to covering the most dramatic Sydney to Hobart yatch race in sailing history. If you grew up in the 70s and 80s you will love really love this. You don’t even have to like sport that much to enjoy it!
In September we have another memoir for you, this one of a slightly different kind. Australian actor Harry Cook’s story of growing up gay in contemporary society and how that shaped his future direction in life. Although only quite young, Harry brings a depth of wisdom earned through the hard yards of experience to his tale, and the book is a great insight into looking just how far we have come as an egalitarian and accepting society… and still how far we have to go. It offers comfort and hope to other people who may be going through their own trials and tribulations, in all aspects of life.
I do hope you enjoy your reading this year…and please don’t hesitate to drop me a comment or an email sharing your reactions to our books. It helps us know what you like and what we can do more of!
My younger son started uni last year and we have been talking about dating and yes, ok, about sex, which lead to a discussion on recognising a Yes or a No. The signs of sexual consent. Yes, tricky!
He told me that the student body had posted The Cup of Tea PSA, a clever Thames Valley Police 3 minute video featuring stick figures, to ensure the first years understood the concept of sexual consent on campus.
In The Cup of Tea PSA, rules of consent are explained using that most fantastic of English traditions, tea drinking. Almost universally you will be asked the question in every home in Britain, ‘Would you like a cup of tea?’
Tea as a euphemism, well, well!
The video begins with the very up front and straight down the line, ‘Oh my God, I would love a cup of tea!’ response, no grey lines here. But then it moves into illustrating where consent lines can get blurry. These responses range from the fairly simple: to understanding that your guest did want tea, but changed his or her mind once you put the kettle on, to the less clear: your guest isn’t really sure how to feel about tea right now.
If you say, ‘Hey, would you like a cup of tea?’ and your guest answers, ‘Uh, you know, I’m not really sure,’ then you can make them a cup of tea, but be aware that they might not drink it.
And if they don’t drink it, then — and this is the important bit — don’t make them drink it. Just because you made it doesn’t mean they have to drink it. And if they say, ‘No, thank you’, then don’t make them tea. At all.
The video goes on to explain what to do if someone loses consciousness while you are asking them if they want tea, even if they said yes prior to passing out, ‘you should just put the tea down, make sure the unconscious person is safe and, this is the important part again, don’t make them drink the tea.’
That’s a lot of talk of tea and I get it, I do. My son said that yes it was an important message but he doesn’t have to remember the making a cup of tea analogy to recognise the signs of sexual consent from potential partners and he certainly would never give tea to anyone unconscious!
In Love, Sex and No Regrets for Today’s Teens, author Elizabeth Clarke writes about how important it is being able to practise saying, ‘I’m not comfortable with that, I don’t know you that well, I want to know you better’ or simply ‘No’.
Elizabeth stresses that a healthy sexuality for teens comes down to being old enough and mature enough to know how to say ‘No’ when you need to and to recognise when your partner is saying ‘No’. That means if you aren’t getting a response from your partner, if there’s shrugging or suggestions of ‘I don’t know’ then that is a ‘No’. An unenthusiastic anything is a ‘No’.
‘Yes, just do it’, or ‘I may as well get it over with’, are responses that really shouldn’t be heard but seem to be accepted in our sexualised society where boundaries do get blurry and issues of self-worth aren’t discussed. Elizabeth tells us what these ‘No’ signs are from other people in a straightforward, honest way.
The Brits do love their tea and the PSA does get the message across, albeit very simplistically. However, it does ultimately demonstrate the importance of ‘No means No, which is a message our teenagers need to know the signs of, with or without a cup of tea as their guide.